Thursday, 26 January, 2012 at Patagonia (posted 26 April, 2012)
Greetings, dear ones, I am Kryon of Magnetic Service. Have you started to feel it yet? There’s a difference in your perception, which makes it easier for you to come along with me to a quantum place. The ship [Cruise Ship] isolates you from the land just enough to suspend the reality of your everyday life. By the time you end this cruise, you will have bonded with the family with an energy of joy. Some solutions will be at hand, there will be a few epiphanies, and right now there is the potential for three healings. For some, peace will be delivered, replacing anxiety. There’ll be some clarity on some future plans as well, all because you sat together with me here today.
Your willingness to do this creates a state that is a different paradigm, a different way of being, an allowance for clearer thinking. The more often you do it, the more often you will feel the shift. So I want you to enjoy this moment and relax in it, knowing it is indeed safe and appropriate and proper. Dear ones, open your heart this day. You’ve done many heartfelt things this day [during the seminar], so now let us do some exercises in spiritual logic.
This will not be a long channelling, but I’ll do some information transfer for you. I will call this the recalibration of “shoulds” – things you feel you should do or should not do according to those who are in charge. “In charge of what?” you might ask. Well, they are the ones who are in charge of “shoulds”, and you know who they are. They are tradition, spiritual authority, history and the learning of the past. The information I give is specific for everyshould, but not necessarily what you have been taught. Things are changing, and with the recalibration of energy on the planet, the puzzle you have worked for a long time as a Lightworker is starting to shift as well. There are only a few questions about the shoulds to cover today, but they will be questions that are answered easily, but asked quite often. They cover a lot of different kinds of subjects.
Worship
Let’s start with a spiritual one: God is the creator of the world, correct? Indeed, He is. Indeed, She is. Should not the creator then be worshipped? For all of mankind has seen this fact and has, therefore, worshipped the idea of God in many forms from the very beginning. In the New Age esoteric movement, there is no worship. There truly are no grand altars or buildings. There is no place to kneel and give God thanks for anything. So some might face off with you and point their fingers and say, “You are not worshipping as you should.” What is the answer to this? And what would you say?
I’ve given the metaphor before: Do you believe you are a piece of the creator? The masters who walked the planet have told you that you are. One of the most recent ones, the Christ, identified himself and He said, “I am the Son of God,” and then he looked up and said, “And so are you.” So it is the great “I am” that is inside you, but this is difficult to see or understand, for Humans look for grandness in divinity. They look for what they expect would be God in the sky, but they do not see that attribute inside themselves.
So let us redefine the “I am”. Let us decide what the Son of God terminology means. It means you are related to the creator. It means that the creator may very well be a family member. It means that you have information and understanding inside that you are, indeed, a family member. You have tranquility, lack of drama and safety when you think about what is inside yourself.
So that which is inside the Human is not necessarily felt as the grandness of the creator, but the family of the creator. So I ask, how do you treat your biological family? Which one have you worshipped lately? Mother? Father? Sister? Brother? And you would say, “No, we do not worship one another. We respect one another. We look forward to being with certain family members. Sisters and brothers. There’s no drama, but rather there is often the expectation of fun, enjoyment and joy. We care about one another. We love one another.” And that, dear one, is the answer to this should!
Instead of worship, there’s appreciation, acknowledgment, ceremony of thanks and love. That is a big difference from “down on your knees” worship, don’t you see? Why not emulate the Master’s words? If you are a Son of God, then don’t worship God. Instead, be part of the family. Appreciate that which is inside. Feel close to the creator when you sit in the chair and do not elevate that which should not be elevated, but love that which should be loved.
Communal Living for Strength
Here’s another one: Some of you have been told that it makes more sense for Lightworkers to clump together, for logically, this would create more light. It would make more sense because Lightworkers would be of like mind and come together as a group and live together as a group. They could then better build that city as a group which has been called the light on the hill.
In addition, grouping together will create better communication, teaching and protection against the older energies of Earth and those things that would get in the way of the path of a true Lightworker. Is there anything wrong with this? Now I will tell you that those who would say this to you are in an old, linear paradigm. They’re looking for things they feel will build a greater life, but have lost sight of what a Lightworker really does.
You are learning to be a self-sufficient creator of life. You could walk into the wilderness and contain all that is. This is the core of the statement, “I am that I am.” The statement is not, “I am that I am, as long as they are what they are.” You see? You are a self-sufficient lighthouse! When is the last time you saw a great deal of lighthouses all on one rock? They don’t need each other! When is the last time you saw a lighthouse convention?
“Well, that’s silly,” you might say. “Lighthouses are all anchored on rocks. They cannot come and visit one another.” Correct, but they can certainly send light to one another, could they not? After all, that’s what a Lighthouse is equipped for. Perhaps Lightworkers can even be entangled with one another quantumly, and then distance would not matter? [quantum entanglement was mentioned in the seminar] So perhaps it’s time for you to change the paradigm of how you imagine your place on the planet. Do you need protection? Is your light in danger?
When you leave this place and the boat that you are on docks for its final time on your cruise, you will all scatter. You’ll go all over the world. Some of you will go unwillingly with tears in your eyes and you will say, “I liked this. I would like to stay doing this.” But I can tell you that you are looking at an old paradigm to have sorrow at all! Once you have touched the heart of another, it’s for life if you want it to be. You can connect and stay connected if you want. Your meeting here may create a network of light as you return to those places where you anchor yourself on your own rock and, all by yourself, create light in a dark place where you might live. Do you understand?
There is no should to live together as a group. If you were to do such a thing, it leaves the rest of the planet in the dark! It is incredibly self-serving and does nothing for anyone but the group. Those who do it just want to feel good with each other, and it does not help the planet. That’s the second should.
Spiritual Eating – What Food Is For You?
Let us change the subject. “Kryon, what should I eat as a Lightworker? I’ve heard many ideas. There are the ones who eat meat and the ones who do not, the ones who remove themselves from all things processed, and those who don’t. There are even those who eat nothing at all and only breathe air! What is the thing I should do to honor God, and my body, with the food I eat?”
Immediately there will be those who point to many spiritual scriptures and say, “This is what you should do.”Others, less spiritual, may give you pure chemistry for cleansing and diet and health. Still others will stick with the tradition of your family heritage or ponder the integrity of eating an animal. So where is the truth in this? It appears to have apparent logic and makes sense to many.
Dear ones, what is the goal? Is it to be healthy and, at the same time, honor God? Most would say, “Yes.” All right, it’s time for some spiritual logic. Question: Where did we establish that God was? Answer: The creator is inside you. So how do you honor that divine plan that is inside you? The answer is to stay alive as long as you can! It’s to hold your light on the planet as long as you can. So how can I give one dietary “should” to all of you who are so unique and different? For that matter, how could anyone give a generic instruction about one “correct diet” to such a vast array of different Human body types? Yet they do.
Here’s the answer: Inside each of you there’s something called innate. Innate is “body intelligence”. Innate is the energy of body consciousness you use when you do “muscle testing” [kinesiology]. Innate knows what’s happening at the very cellular level of your own body, which you do not know. Innate is the consciousness of your DNA itself. It’s the ultimate source for your own “body awareness”.
Innate knows about something called Akashic inheritance. This is the knowledge of who you used to be in past lives. All your dietary needs, to stay alive longer with health, are based on a cellular structure that knows what it wants and needs, and it “needs” what it is used to, dear ones.
It doesn’t matter who you are or where you live. If you have arrived on this planet from a past lifetime in India, you’re going to want to eat like an Indian – even if you are in Montana! If you had spent lifetimes in Asia, and today you’re from Brooklyn, you might still want to eat like an Asian. Your chemistry “remembers” and craves what it feels will satisfy efficient digestion and health.
Your Akashic inheritance is far stronger than you give it credit for. Past life energies are NOT in the past! They are a quantum energy of your spiritual makeup that is current and something you carry around as part of your “whole self” this time around. They affect you!
The body will tell you that very thing, if you ask it. Your cellular structure will cry out for those things that you are used to, and will make your body relax and be comfortable with the chemistry it is used to. If you are new to this culture and spent the last five lifetimes in another one, don’t be surprised if the former culture’s diet is what you crave. The vegetarian diet will be something that serves him/her because they’re in touch with their Akash. They are eating what their cellular structure thrives to eat, not what someone told them to eat to make them more spiritual.
Pay attention to your body intelligence, for it will tell you a lot about who you’ve been. There is no should except one: Stay alive and be healthy. Listen to your cellular structure and it will tell you what you should eat. Is this not spiritual logic for you? Do not try to convert another to your “correct way” of eating. Honor the Akashic system and realize that your innate knows far better than you do what will work for you. My partner is currently attempting the “Glutton Free” diet. [Kryon humor]
Should I use Doctors and Drugs to Heal Me or Spiritual Methods?
“Dear Kryon, I have heard that you should stay natural and not use the science on the planet for healing. It does not honor God to go to a doctor. After all, don’t you say that we can heal with our minds? So why should we ever go to a doctor if we can do it ourselves? Not only that, my doctor isn’t enlightened, so he has no idea about my innate or my spiritual body needs. What should I do?”
First, Human Being, why do you wish to put so many things in boxes? You continue to want a yes and no answer for complex situations due to your 3D, linear outlook on almost everything. Learn to think out of the 3D box! Look at the heading of this section [above]. It asks which one should you do. It already assumes you can’t do both because they seem dichotomous.
Let’s use some spiritual logic: Here is a hypothetical answer, “Don’t go to a doctor, for you can heal everything with your mind.” So now I will ask: How many of you can do that in this room right now? How many readers can do that with efficiency right now? All of you are old souls, but are you really ready to do that? Do you know how? Do you have really good results with it? Can you rid disease and chemical imbalance with your mind right now?
I’m going to give you a truth, whether you choose to see it or not. You’re not ready for that! You are not yet prepared to take on the task of full healing using your spiritual tools. Lemurians could do that, because Pleiadians taught them how! It’s one of the promises of God, that there’ll come a day when your DNA works that efficiently and you will be able to walk away from drug chemistry and the medical industry forever, for you’ll have the creator’s energy working at 100 percent, something you saw within the great masters who walked the earth.
This will be possible within the ascended earth that you are looking forward to, dear one. Have you seen the news lately? Look out the window. Is that where you are now? We are telling you that the energy is going in that direction, but you are not there yet.
Let those who feel that they can heal themselves begin the process of learning how. Many will be appreciative of the fact that you have some of the gifts for this now. Let the process begin, but don’t think for a moment that you have arrived at a place where every health issue can be healed with your own power. You are students of a grand process that eventually will be yours if you wish to begin the quantum process of talking to your cells. Some will be good at this, and some will just be planting the seeds of it.
Now, I would like to tell you how Spirit works and the potentials of what’s going to happen in the next few years. We’re going to give the doctors of the planet new inventions and new science. These will be major discoveries about the Human body and of the quantum attributes therein.
Look at what has already happened, for some of this science has already been given to you and you are actually using it. Imagine a science that would allow the heart to be transplanted because the one you have is failing. Of course! It’s an operation done many times a month on this planet. That information came from the creator, did you realize that? It didn’t drop off the shelf of some dark energy library to be used in evil ways.
So, if you need a new heart, Lightworker, should you go to the doctor or create one with your mind? Until you feel comfortable that you can replace your heart with a new one by yourself, then you might consider using the God-given information that is in the hands of the surgeon. For it will save your life, and create a situation where you stay and continue to send your light to the earth! Do you see what we’re saying?
You can also alter that which is medicine [drugs] and begin a process that is spectacular in its design, but not very 3D. I challenge you to begin to use what I would call the homeopathic principle with major drugs. If some of you are taking major drugs in order to alter your chemistry so that you can live better and longer, you might feel you have no choice. “Well, this is keeping me alive,” you might say. “I don’t yet have the ability to do this with my consciousness, so I take the drugs.”
In this new energy, there is something else that you can try if you are in this category. Do the following with safety, intelligence, common sense and logic. Here is the challenge: The principle of homeopathy is that an almost invisible tincture of a substance is ingested and is seen by your innate. Innate “sees” what you are trying to do and then adjusts the body’s chemistry in response. Therefore, you might say that you are sending the body a “signal for balance.” The actual tincture is not large enough to affect anything chemically – yet it works!
The body [innate] sees what you’re trying to do and then cooperates. In a sense, you might say the body is healing itself because you were able to give it instructions through the homeopathic substance of what to do. So, why not do it with a major drug? Start reducing the dosage and start talking to your cells, and see what happens. If you’re not successful, then stop the reduction. However, to your own amazement, you may often be successful over time.
You might be able to take the dosage that you’re used to and cut it to at least a quarter of what it was. It is the homeopathy principle and it allows you to keep the purpose of the drug, but reduce it to a fraction of a common 3D dosage. You’re still taking it internally, but now it’s also signaling in addition to working chemically. The signal is sent, the body cooperates, and you reduce the chance of side effects.
You can’t put things in boxes of yes or no when it comes to the grand system of Spirit. You can instead use spiritual logic and see the things that God has given you on the planet within the inventions and processes. Have an operation, save your life, and stand and say, “Thank you, God, for this and for my being born where these things are possible.” It’s a complicated subject, is it not? Each of you is so different! You’ll know what to do, dear one. Never stress over that decision, because your innate will tell you what is appropriate for you if you’re willing to listen.
There is no New Age. God doesn’t change. Stay with tradition.
Let us look at the final one. There are those who will tell you that God is the same yesterday, today and forever. They would say you should not, therefore, be in a New Age movement, for God will never change and the energy of God will always be the same. Therefore, your ideas of the energy shifting and God changing are foolishness. Then they will warn you and say, “Stay away from the New Age and instead go with the traditions and the systems of religion and spiritual learning that are set up and have a history with billions of people on the earth.”
This entire argument above is based on a misunderstanding, dear ones. Here is the statement I wish to make. God is the same yesterday, today and forever. It’s beautiful, for God the creator will never change. What ischanging, however, is the Human Being’s relationship to an unchanging God. What is changing is the Human Being’s ability to get past an older energy and, with a new energy, meet the creator inside. It is the Human Being who is changing, not God.
The very environment around you is cooperating [Gaia] in order to better understand a God who is the same yesterday, today and forever. The New Age is about Human Beings recognizing that their relationship to Spirit is changing and becoming more real in their lives. This means that Humans can now begin to see and feel the creator inside in a new, profound way. New spiritual tools are at hand and an awareness of self is beginning to slowly increase. Humans are changing! God is the same.
Remove yourself from tradition, for it will only serve to keep you in a prison of your own making, where you cling to mythology and never see the magnificence of your own soul.
The ONE Should
You might say there is one attribute that runs all through the shoulds. You should always allow yourself spiritual discernment in all things. Do not compartmentalize the energies around you – something your linear mind wishes to do. Instead, meld these things into a soup of spiritual logic that makes sense for your life. Do not apply your rules to any other Human Being, but instead find out what works for you and celebrate it as you become more healthy.
Dear ones, I am the brother/sister Kryon. I know you. It doesn’t matter whether you are young or an elder in this group. All of you are old souls who will be together a very long time. Remember this. The first month of 2012. The beginning of many new things. And so it is.
Kryon
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Lee Carroll
I know you’re off your blog, and so DO NOT RESPOND. I just wanted to clarify something here because I don’t feel it was right to call my mother a bitch, although there was a reason for it as there is for every behavior, and although she does behave in a scary and anger-inducing way sometimes, she is not completely a bitch. She has taken care of my material needs and continues to care about that, and so she’s ok as well as difficult. It’s quite ambivalent, but not entirely bad. I hate resorting to name-calling, it only happens because we don’t know a better way of dealing with the anger and fear we feel. And judgment words are subjective, not real. All anything is is cause and effect, and this applies to everyone including my mother. I hope to one day be able to release the anger and fear I have, so that I can truly forgive and make peace with everything. We are our environment and everything is connected so the reason my mother makes me angry is not because she’s bad, that’s a very simple-minded and illusory assessment. It’s also the fault of the environment that produced her (e.g. my grandparents and their parents or lack of (my mother’s mother was made an orphan at a young age, so also fate; the societal status quo – as one commentor on Zen Gardner’s blog said, “our ‘civilization’ is killing us, it’s really sophisticated barbarianism”), and the environment that keeps me financially enslaved. I am triggered from all sides and displace anger for things onto other things all the time, I’m awash in anger and fear. I must find peace within. I felt guilty for calling her that, and so I want to apologize for that. I don’t feel it was right. Conscience is a b****, and writing or expressing it provides relief. I have myself been called a bitch, a few times, but it didn’t bother me. I actually didn’t think much of it….I was actually relieved when I was called that in high school because in elementary school I was made fun of for being quiet, and it’s better to be a “bitch” or the perceived aggressor than a cream puff or target for bullying. Although my high school had mostly well-behaved kids and bullying wasn’t a problem, it still had an anxiety-reducing effect, and I was fine with it because of that. And the people who called me that didn’t know me, I didn’t socialize with them, I rarely socialized with anyone, so it was one of those snap judgments which occurred because of their own anger/aggression issues. And it all goes back to emotional wounds.
Thank you Jean for directing my attention to emotional clearing, I have not heard of it, not during my studies (I have an MA in psych), but I feel it is valid. The emotional is separate from the mental, and even though you think right, doesn’t mean you feel right, and it is feelings that largely govern our behavior. That’s why psychotherapy is so ineffective, or effective but not for the reason clinicians think which is the therapy technique, but because of the connection that is made between therapist and client, if it happens. It is actually frowned upon and called “transference” (left-brained nonsense) and touching is not advised. Psychotherapy is the same as talking to yourself, only you have to fork off a hundred or more dollars per session. Some have the nerve to charge 300 or more.
I hope you feel better Jean, I know physical pain is difficult. I don’t know if it will be of much help to you, but music helps me when I get bad menstrual cramps.
~Ev
Just one more comment and I want to be fair to myself this time. I had a dream last night concerning my mother and it wasn’t pretty. I realized again why I am disturbed by her so much. I don’t want to explain here, I will leave that for therapy, if I ever get around to affording it, and finding the right doctor. I said that our relationship is ambivalent. That is because my mother has a talent for manipulation, and knows how to get back into people’s good graces, even after she’s been abusive to them. It’s murky and complicated stuff, not all like how I made it seem in my post last night before I went to sleep. It’s actually difficult to use words to explain it fully, it’s difficult to explain experience and feelings with words period, especially because we often suppress them, and need to work on bringing them out, and that takes time, as I am sure you very well know from your own experience.
Thanks again. All this has been helpful in getting me moving further along the path of knowing and healing myself.
~Ev
I feel guilty again. I know forgiveness will be what I’ll need to do. Accept the bad with the good. It is the way it is. No one is perfect. It’s not like being nice and amicable comes easy for me. I too have issues. We all have ‘em. I know that.
No, she is vicious. I am not that vicious. Most people are not that vicious. She is like Jekyll and Hyde. Sometimes she’s hostile and vicious, and sometimes she’s nice and sweet. I don’t know if it’s manipulation or if she’s not conscious of what she’s doing. I don’t trust her. As a kid I dreamt of witches, and sometimes that witch was my mother. I still live with her. I wish I didn’t. I’m trying to move out, but there are internships I need to complete first so I have the letters of rec to get work. Life is an evil hamster wheel. When will it end? I feel that God has helped me out recently as my parents were given the opportunity to move into a better apartment, and pay less rent. The living conditions are more decent, I actually have a door now, and don’t have to hear my father’s awful snoring. My mother although still vicious at times, is not as inclined to threaten me as much because “she” doesn’t pay rent (my father always paid the rent and often expressed his anger to her about it which she later took out on me). I would love to get away from them both finally, but largely I would love to get away from my mother. What is the point of emotional clearing if I would still have to go back to the noxious, fear and anger-inducing environment which caused the difficulties to begin with? I am putting most of my energy on moving out right now.
Hey… I know I’m just writing for me here. I was reading over this page today and I want to say how touched I was by Tricia saying that I shouldn’t let anyone make me feel inferior for being angry, that there’s always a reason for it. I appreciate her validating that especially since she was one of those negativity-phobics that always made me feel inferior. I really appreciate it Tricia. I remembered this because yesterday I sent an angry email to Drake about the military, and, it’s good to know I’m not inferior for it!
Ev, this business of feeling inferior is a very tricky one. I can’t begin to tell you how inferior I felt. I had a little critical voice in my head that had learned to criticize everything I did. My therapist gave me a mantra that I must have said thousands of times: I’m not the best, but I’m good enough! Try it! It worked for me.
What also helped me was to realize that we are made to feel inferior by others who live in fear and are trying to ‘keep us ashamed and in our places.” They are trying to control us, and they are often very successful at doing so, especially if we have been brow-beaten (at home) as children, as I was. I would ask the tough question: Why do we have to shut the doors and windows where there is an fight? Why don’t we just solve the problem so we can leave the windows open? You cannot imagine how I was attacked! My therapist taught me that if they were right, and I was wrong, everything in their world was likely okay for them. In other words, they had to make me sick, so they were the ones who were well. In front of my first date, my sister laughed at me and told me my stocking seams were crooked. She asked me why I couldn’t ever get such things right. I was mortified, felt stupid and struggled with such things for years. What I didn’t realize, because there was no one there to help me realize it, was that I wasn’t about such foolish things, and they were. They tried to bring me down to their size.
Inferiority is a very tricky thing that has been subtly put on so many of us, probably because we were never ‘about’ a lot of the 3D things, the outward things that are the ONLY things important to so many people. We had so much more going for us than many people did, and they weren’t about to let us succeed. Tribal thinking was all important. There was a time when the level of consciousness was such that you were, in a very real sense, required to die for the survival of the tribe! Give up who you were, give up your dreams, for some low level ideal of the tribe. Follow them off the cliff like a bunch of lemmings, if necessary. I was taught that when you finally broke free of the tribe, they would step back and celebrate you. I never had that experience. By then, I guess the tribe where I used to live was simply too far gone . . .
Hopefully, this will start your mind thinking about how it all happened in your life. It’s really a theme and variation, and the stories may vary, but the common thread is often as I have described. We were clearly Jonathan Livingston Seagulls, and our caregivers weren’t going to have it. They would prefer to ‘use’ us for their own ends. Another thing comes to my mind, as well, and it’s only fair to mention it: these people simply didn’t know what to do with people like us. They were at a total loss, and relied on what they had been taught. That was all they knew. So you see, there may also be some forgiveness required here.
Love and hugs,
~Jean
Yes, a lot of it is very likely due to my mother who is a bitch with obessive compulsive personality disorder. She has always constantly judged me for the smallest of things and went after me physically even if I spilled milk. I could never go to her with any real problems I had. It was a horror being raised by someone like that. I lived in fear often. I do not think it was only her fault though, as my anger and fear is so grand, I think some of it is from past life experience. Thank you again for sharing, it always helps to know there are others out there who not only care, but lived through similar things.
Although it was not necessary, I do appreciate and accept your apology Tricia and I found your story interesting. You’re right, I did feel attacked, but I didn’t catch the irony of you attacking me for attacking someone else. Awesome you caught that and kudos to you for your self-reflection, openness and honesty. That is the only way to grow! Now I know what to say to anyone who rebuffs any negative thing I say or do! So what does not being negative actually mean? I guess it’s someone who is “present” with negativity (Eckhart Tolle reference). I am reminded of a Tolle video where he talks about how we can practice presence when visiting our parents, lol. Looking back today at my original comment on this page I go, “WHOA – that is so aggressive! LOL! I did critique and rip it apart as you said, like a piranha ripping at an animal’s flesh. Now I laugh at myself. Where did that come from? Jean was right on, about what she said about triggers. Yea I was triggered and shot pellets at it, at Lee Carroll and “Kryon”! LOL! Self-reflection can be funny sometimes, if we dismantle our sore egos. And recently I even felt satisfied as my own “lighthouse”! (see my original comment) Amazing I know, right?! How people can hold conflicting feelings at once, and/or switch from one to the other so quickly. Humans have more depth in them and are more complicated than they give themselves credit for.
Your issue with not wanting to be “negative” is a VERY common one. No one likes to think they’re negative (except my experimental psychology professor, she loved being called a bitch!), and as a race we must face and learn to accept the shadow parts of ourselves in order to move forward (please watch “Love, Reality, and the Time of Transition”. It was very helpful to me. Jean posted it some months ago). And so Tricia, as a human, you cannot NOT be negative! LOL! That is impossible! And sometimes reactions we judge as “negative” are a universe’s way to move things along, and trigger changes as you said. I heard somewhere once that all judgment is actually subjective and is not quantifiable objectively, which means all judgment is in fact illusory. We are not “bad” or “weak” for being negative (or should I say “negative”?). It just happened due to a combination of factors. From a higher consciousness perspective everything is simply cause and effect. Although humans feel bad or good about things, on a higher level everything is fine and “intelligently designed” as it were, because any experience causes learning which is always a positive thing, consciousness grows it never “deflates”. I often say to myself that you are always better than the day you were before, regardless of what you do. Because you find out a “weakness” you didn’t before know you had, and now that you know it, you are only better for it, not worse. It is a human tendency to punish ourselves when we do things that we think are “wrong” and that is a great illusion of duality because we should be doing the opposite and congratulating ourselves and being grateful for knowing better, as before we did not. Hope this is as helpful to you as it has been for me, that is, if you ever come to this page again:)
Although, (all I care about is getting to the truth and I will be discussing my own discussion) negativity could be operationally defined (experimental science terminology) as a reaction that occurs in the human brain, e.g. in the amygdala, or wherever fear and pain is processed. Obviously, someone abusing someone, and causing their nerves to illicit pain responses is negative. To us, humans, it’s painful. To any living entity, except those with congenital insensitivity to pain but even they get their feelings hurt. So of course as a human I am not going to say negativity doesn’t exist, because it does to humans. When I hear people say everything here is an illusion, I think, “Is it really? To whom?” Yea, maybe to people who are beyond the physical, but while here as a physical person, it’s not illusion, it’s the experience. How present would Eckhart Tolle be if he was being attacked by a mountain lion? There are parts of us that are essentially human, and as long as we’re physically human we will experience human responses like fear, like anger, like pain, emotional and physical. We can; however, control the degree to which we experience these things, by reaching beyond the physical through spiritual practice, letting the “transcendental shine through” as Tolle says. Prayer, meditation, emotional and creative expression, all help. When one feels physical pain, they can distract themselves with TV, music. They can use mind over matter techniques, “I am strong. I can get through this”. Perhaps, we can eliminate physical pain altogether if we’re good at a certain meditation. I don’t know, I haven’t done that, but I have heard that monks can survive in extreme cold by meditating. Emotional pain perhaps could be dealt with the same way, through a type of meditation or something. So I guess what I really care about is not determining what is negative and what is not, because that is actually just the mind thinking, what I care about is balance, and achieving that in whatever situation however.
Eckhart is only pointing to a strategy that you can use to get through life, a good helpful strategy, being “present”. But like any person, he has only a piece of the puzzle. Notice how he does not talk about humanitarian crises or politics or anything that is going on in this world. As one person he may not need to, or get to covering everything, but that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t be paying attention to these issues. As a race we need to address them. If we think everything is fine and rosy and get high off of “presence” (if we manage to I haven’t yet) then there will be no impetus for change. I just realized that people can follow Tolle and still not have the consciousness to see through the lies of the mainstream media. If people continue being asleep and believe propaganda THERE WILL BE NO CHANGE BUT CONTINUOUS NEGLECT OF EARTH AND ITS PEOPLE AND PERPETUATION OF “DUALITY” OR WHAT I CALL “HELL”. People may choose to not see all of this because then they will have to admit to being duped, and that is so abrasive to the ego. “No way did I kill people and lose my limbs for a bunch of banskters! No way the party I voted for is the same as any party because there is only one puppetmaster pulling all the strings. I can’t be that stupid!” So…it’s better to continue being “stupid”? Or wouldn’t it be better to finally see reality as it truly is, including your unconscious part in it, and end duality once and for all. That’s what “Love, Reality, and the Time of Transition” is about. Love is seeing reality as it truly is, not how we may want it to be, and when we look deep enough we see that we actually don’t want to be self-deluded because that causes us pain. That’s why I make it an effort to stick it to my ego whenever possible, and admit being wrong, because it’s actually going to save me more pain later down the line.
Writing all this has been very cathartic for me:)
I feel the same (in my gut as you say), that I will have to go very deep into my subconscious and see a lot of pretty bad stuff. It already feels scary and I don’t know what I’m dealing with yet! I am tearing up as I write this which is most likely because I’m getting at something real here. I agree with Tricia too but her reasoning (head-based) isn’t doing anything to help me deal with my anger, as emotions have to be acknowledged, not talked down to or ‘reasoned away’. But I don’t think that was her intent, to calm my anger. She only wanted to restore reason to the comments section, and she did a good job. So ok, I’m done with that now, I understand that situation better. Your description of the different types of sources of energy is interesting to consider. I have been thinking about Stephen Colbert today (I watch his show often) and how he is one of the few people that I don’t think I could ever hate (dislike maybe at times but not hate), and that intrigued me because I am often angered by people. I guess that is because he too is an angry person, also angered by this world, but he channels that into comedy and maybe that’s why he’s such a fantastic comedian because he is fueled by so much anger! He’s a perfect example of someone using his angry energy to do good.
Thank You Jean for sharing your story with me, I appreciate it. It’s a very helpful preface to what I’m going to have to be undergoing. I feel calmer now. With greater understanding, comes peace.
I appreciate having had the opportunity to address my anger issues here today. I hope there will come a time when the addressing of human emotional issues is done on a societal scale, hopefully in this soon-to-be Golden Age you mention, otherwise humans will continue to act primitively and react aggressively.
- Ev
I am bookmarking this page I will come back to it later to use as a resource!
Thanks again,
Ev
You’re welcome, Ev. Some of us choose tough life paths, and I’ve often wondered why. I remember saying before I knew what I know now about 2012, I’m getting through this mess now, because I’m never coming back here again – ever. I feel somewhat differently now, but I still don’t want to have to go through this sort of a life again. Hugs, ~Jean
Dearest Ev – I just finished reading all the updated posts on this page and hope it’s okay that I respond. Mostly I want to apologize for any ill feelings my post may have caused. I don’t comment much and it just so happened that your post was the one I replied to regarding negativity after weeks of reading several from other posters. I was dealing with building aggravation about negative comments after seeing Jean respond again and again about them in her attempt to keep her blog neutral. So my bubble finally burst and lucky you were the one I directed my aggravation toward – that was unfair to you. After all who am I to judge you regarding you judging someone else? Maybe there is a reason your post is the one I replied to – perhaps this situation will help us both grow.
I also want to commend you on your openness and honesty – it is not an easy thing to do to self-reflect. That alone says so much about the kind of person you are. It may not have showed in my original post but I do understand your anger all to well as I was much the same way not long ago. I think that is why it was upsetting to me – I have worked so hard to change and not be negative and so when I find someone is being that way perhaps I feel they are giving into it too easily and not working hard enough to contain it. (A kind of “well I had to so now you should have to too” type of thing) That is harsh of me and obviously something I need to work on. We are not all in the same place and like others, I have much work to do and will forever have more to learn.
In closing, again I’m sorry if you felt attacked as it truly was not my intention. In retrospect I posted more for myself to release my pent up feelings and that also is certainly not what Jean’s blog is for! I have high hopes that both of us will look back on this as a learning experience and an opportunity to grow. I sincerely wish you all the best on your path to greatness and hope you never let anyone make you feel inferior for being angry – there is always a reason for it and therefore in its own way it is a tool that helps trigger changes. (BTW, I LOVE Stephen Colbert!!! He is also one of my absolute favorite people!)
checking to see if I get this in my email. Maybe my other replies went to spam…
Interesting. I felt good after expressing myself here, I guess it was like a “purging”. Then later that day I thought subtly (it wasn’t clear to me) that maybe it was negative bashing. Reading your comments today gives me a good gauge of the light and love state of mind that the people are in here on this blog, and who am I to say anything against that. I have told myself repeatedly that I must have gone through serious shit (past life subconscious memories?, this life) because of the anger, resentment and distaste I have for people in general. People like Tricia should see what goes through my mind when I people watch while sitting on a park bench! It’s a lot of shit I feel boiling under the surface, I’m not entirely sure what the cause of it is, and I have no idea how all of this is going to get cleared. Oh well…..at least I’m conscious of the anger. So don’t worry Tricia, no more disheartening comments for you to read (from me at least).
One of my triggers is people who don’t tolerate negativity very well, like Tricia. These people are unable to form bridges to very angry people like me, because they don’t want to step into the muck, and they think they’re all-knowing. It’s ok to be angry sometimes Tricia, it’s part of being human. I respect Jean’s comment because she at least acknowledges the pain people experience. I know I have a long way ahead of me to make peace with all this “duality” stuff, I’m actually really curious to know what happened to me to make me who I am. I don’t know how much headway I will make though as I struggle to make ends meet here. I’m not saying this to elicit pity but just to elucidate the reality of the situation.
And that was my last comment, I’m sorry.
Ev, I pretty much agree with Tricia’s statement. I could suggest lots of things to do to help you deal with your anger, but it sounds like you already have a lot on your plate. It doesn’t just go away. You really need to get it out of you, and that is a long process, because you do need to know what is causing it. In my case, I didn’t even know how angry I was, because it was dangerous (quite literally) as a child for me to be angry. On the enneagram scale, I’m a ONE, and we are people whose energy is derived from our gut, which means our energy comes from anger. (Others get their energy from their hearts, or their heads.) Our spiritual journey in life is to convert our anger into something positive. That is, we are to use anger’s energy to do something good. Don’t know if this makes sense to you.
When I finally got in touch with my anger, it rapidly went into rage, which I’d stuffed for my entire life. I thought it truly would kill me! but it didn’t, and it passed, and it only hits me once in a while now, and I know what to do to deal with it. I know what I’m saying likely isn’t very helpful, but I want you to know that even though I pretty much agree with Tricia, I do understand.
Hugs,
~Jean
Ev, I value your honesty. That’s a huge first step. Here’s what I can suggest to you. Let me preface my words by giving them a bit of context. Very soon, this is all going to bust wide open. We either go ahead into the Golden Age, or we do not. I believe we are going into the Golden Age. In order to get there, I believe we must reach a place of financial equality. For that reason – and many others – I do believe that we will be given enough money to start to live our dreams and to do things like our inner healing work. I believe this change is coming down the road more and more rapidly, and will soon be upon us, mostly likely in the next few weeks. If I am wrong, nothing will matter, because we will be kicked into survival mode, and there won’t be time for anything else.
Now, having said that, there may be other kinds of healing work out there that you can do, but I did what is known as emotional clearing. Before I found the woman I worked with, in short order I went through seven doctors. They told me it would take the rest of my life, and I told them I didn’t have the rest of my life, because I was already old. By the time I called the woman who became my therapist, I could tell just from the sound of her voice that she could help me. All she said to me was, “Jean, I believe I can help you,” and somehow I knew she could, perhaps from the rich vibrations of her voice – and she did. Perhaps walking away from the first seven empowered me. They were taking notes on books I was reading! Things like that . . . I don’t know where you live, but you might want to begin to line up your ducks to see if there is a therapist who does emotional clearing. By the way, the words ‘emotional clearing’ are like buzz words.
As far as I know – and I would love to be wrong – there is no other way to really heal but to jump in the swamp that is your unconscious life and deal with it. You do need, however, a guide to support you, because it is scary. I can’t tell you how many times I called my therapist in a total panic and asked her to teach me another way to feel/think about something – and she always did. Those were hard won lessons that are beyond price in value.
Last summer in Sedona, AZ, I spoke with a brilliant Native American, who shared much of his philosophy with me. When I began to realize that what he learned at his grandmother’s knee, what I paid a huge price – in every way – to learn from a therapist, well – then I was angry! Oh, boy, was I ever!These are the lessons our parents never had the opportunity to learn and pass on. We’ve got to begin to do it now!
Several years after I was on my own, I saw What the Bleep, and I realized my entire healing was based on the worldview of quantum theory. I was floored, but then I realized shortly afterwards that the indigenous tribes connection to God, like when they did ceremony was also based on quantum theory, and the ‘real’ truth about God/Source began to come together for me. The world view of quantum theory is the link between Science and God, and I don’t think we’ve come to that realization today by accident. With so many strongly left-brained people on the planet, we really need that knowledge, because it helps us access our right brains.
Anyway, perhaps this gives you some food for thought.
Love and hugs,
~Jean
Jean provides us with this great blog where we can absorb what we connect with and simply leave what we don’t. It is so disheartening to read these attacks on others. If Kryon / Lee’s post does not resonate with you why must you attack it and display such negativity? We could all critique and rip apart every post shared but what good does that do? This is what we are supposed to be working on and moving away from. I hope in the future more are able to realize this for their own good. It does not matter if Lee is really channeling or not- the post brings up some interesting points to ponder whether you agree or not or believe it or not, but once you judge and make fun of it you are making it all about YOU. Again, what good does that do?
As Ev said – don’t believe everything you read. I think we are all smart enough to know that by now and hope Ev realizes that applies to his/her post as well. Ev I don’t think Kryon/Lee is telling us what we should or should not do. You state “Any attempt to highlight what a person should or shouldn’t do, whether it’s recalibrated shoulds or not, is a form of arrogance. Who are you Kryon or Lee Carroll to tell any of us that we shouldn’t meet up and connect with people of like mind?” You are calling this poster arrogant but in the same breath you have made it all about you and likewise are telling us we shouldn’t believe Kryon/Lee – what is the difference? I, for one, when reading this article do not come away with the feeling that we are being told what we should or shouldn’t do. They are suggestions – take them or leave them. In no way is it said we should NOT connect with others as you’ve suggested but simply that we should be aware that it is not necessary because all we need is inside us individually. Do you realize that you only repeated exactly the point Kryon was making when you said “Truth is inside you not outside…”!?
Thanks, Tricia! I’ve shared your words elsehwere. They are to the point! Many thanks and hugs, ~Jean
I posted a comment, hopefully you’ll get this in your email:)
Well said Jean~!
“So I ask, how do you treat your biological family? Which one have you worshipped lately? Mother? Father? Sister? Brother? And you would say, “No, we do not worship one another. We respect one another. We look forward to being with certain family members. Sisters and brothers. There’s no drama, but rather there is often the expectation of fun, enjoyment and joy. We care about one another. We love one another.” And that, dear one, is the answer to this should!”
–HILARIOUS. Obviously, this Kryon character, imaginary, or not has no idea about human psychology or maybe about karma and how we have karmic families which know how to push our buttons. Biological families on Earth are all about drama, and very little fun and enjoyment.
Second of all, no one gets to tell anyone else what they should or shouldn’t do. Ultimately, each person is sovereign. Any attempt to highlight what a person should or shouldn’t do, whether it’s recalibrated shoulds or not, is a form of arrogance. Who are you Kryon or Lee Carroll to tell any of us that we shouldn’t meet up and connect with people of like mind? You know, the people we choose as our family. Are you saying lightworkers aren’t entitled to family? Maybe you enjoy your biological family Lee, but that doesn’t mean that others do. Are you ready to say that lightworkers who are HUMANS should be their own “lighthouses”? This goes against all psychological knowing about how humans are social animals and crave each other’s presence otherwise they have stress and die early. We may be lightworkers Kryon and/or Lee, but we’re still human biological entities. The arrogance!
Third of all, “You are learning to be a self-sufficient creator of life. You could walk into the wilderness and contain all that is.” Oh yea, I wonder Lee Carroll, if you went into the woods with the intention of never coming out. How long would it be before you came running out? HILARIOUS.
These are some of the things that I noticed that were off. I would’ve liked to send this comment to Lee directly to see how “Kryon” would respond, but dunno how…do you Jean? I don’t have a facebook.
Lee Carroll has a wikipedia page and it says he is doing quite well making money off his books and things. I’m just saying don’t believe everything you read. Truth is inside you not outside, not in channelers, not in channelings. I smell a rat, even though a lot of what Carroll says is nice, of course it would be, would a channeler be successful if he or she didn’t know how to appeal to people? Plus a lot of the things he or any channeler writes can be made up by anyone with a good imagination. If things you read ring true, it is because you yourself think them to be true. It’s important to address things you feel are off, especially if you don’t know the source of the info, and the intent of the person giving it.
I do appreciate the “Son of God” ideas in this article, if you put anyone, including God, on a pedestal, you don’t have access to them. However, biological families aren’t entirely good metaphors for this:)
Ev, I answered Doreen’s comment, in part, with these words, which you might want to consider: “I’ve read a couple heated responses, and I would suggest if those sorts of energies are rising in you, that you may not be in a place of neutrality on whatever the subject. This is generally a clue to us that we have something more going on here than meets the eye. It’s usually wise to have a look at our responses from a deeper place than the perceived subject. Strangely enough, it quite often it has little to do with the subject.”
Here’s something else interesting that if you haven’t heard it you might want to consider: 1) When people get angry and upset with us, it’s all about them. This is a very powerful way to walk through a lot of the stuff that comes at us every day, which is often meant to cut us down to size, for whatever reason. When people dump on me, I know it’s not my stuff, but theirs, because other people often respond to the same thing in a very positive manner. What has happened is that the angry person has been triggered by some past memory, which is often only ‘remembered’ by the unconscious. Then, when the unconscious rules our lives and runs them, we walk from mess to mess to mess, and don’t understand why.
2) When we are the ones sending out the strong energy, it is all about us . . . lots to think about, folks, with this one. When you begin to understand what I’m saying – if you haven’t already – 1) you will find you are free to walk calmly in between everything that is being thrown at you with a wonderful sense of inner peace. 2) When you understand your particular triggers, than you can consciously choose not to buy into them . . . I can’t begin to describe the sense of inner peace that arises as you grow in this sort of understanding. So much of our communication with one another is filled with this sort of ‘stuff’.
Family, it’s because we’ve been abused! I’m defining abuse as the absence of love, and in a world of Duality, there is no way any of us lived in the Garden of Eden. Maybe it wasn’t done on purpose, but it happened anyway. Our parents didn’t have this knowledge as we grew up, so it’s up to us to take responsibility to fill in the holes for ourselves.
Love and hugs to everyone who reads this . . .